pawsplay
Hero
If Jack wants Jane at the table, by all means invite her. She is not allowed to set conditions, but by the same token, she should be granted the same lattitude to express herself. This may end up in a farcical situation where one player says, "Poo!" and she responds, "Language, please," but sure, why not? It could still be good gaming.
The important thing, from my standpoint, is that the situation not be manipulated. She should not be asking Jack to act on her behalf, any more than is reasonable to accomodate a new group member, and Jack should be asking the GM for help in changing his gaming group to suit her liking.
Most likely, Jane will yank him out of the game, and you'll know upfront you've lost him from the gang, which is a useful thing to know. But you never know. I've played with some pretty churchy people who were great gamers all the same.
The important thing, from my standpoint, is that the situation not be manipulated. She should not be asking Jack to act on her behalf, any more than is reasonable to accomodate a new group member, and Jack should be asking the GM for help in changing his gaming group to suit her liking.
Most likely, Jane will yank him out of the game, and you'll know upfront you've lost him from the gang, which is a useful thing to know. But you never know. I've played with some pretty churchy people who were great gamers all the same.