Hussar
Legend
We're role playing around a kitchen table not performing high theater. If you don't figure out that someone at the table is playing a character that identifies as female until the fifth session they didn't "fail", it just hasn't come up yet.
If someone in a group I was playing in told me I had failed to role play properly because they just now figured out I was playing a different gendered character my reaction would probably rhyme with "huck off".
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So, let me get this straight. We're five sessions in, about 20 hours of play (or thereabouts - the run time of an entire season of a TV show) and your portrayal of your character is so lacking in any indicators that no one at the table has realized that your character is a different gender than you and that's their fault?
Again, and I keep repeating the question because no one seems to want to pony up here. Why are you playing a character that is a different gender from yourself if that choice in no way actually impacts how you play that character? To the point where no one at the table actually had any idea that your character was a different gender from yourself after 15 or 20 hours of play.
Do we apply the same standard to everything else as well? Background is completely unimportant and never referenced? The fact that your character is a criminal, or a soldier or an acolyte has zero impact on how you portray this character? And it would be everyone else's fault for not knowing that your character was a criminal, soldier or an acolyte despite you never once actually bringing that to the table?
Again, just so everyone's on the same page here. It's NOT about being "female" enough. It's about portraying your character at all.