I don't care which build you choose, but your power selection suggests that you might want to switch. Warlord's Favor (as Tactical), Lead the Attack, and Adaptive Stratagem are all significantly better with a higher Int modifier.
Problem with that is that Half-Elf is completely non-synergistic with Tactical Warlord. You could change to Eladrin or Human, but that might involve completely reconcepting your character.
I originally thought about Eladrin, but then I got the feeling that we were going with less "magical" races, so I opted for Half-elf over Human (mostly b/c of the Racial Encounter power that can serve up a plate of possible buffs).
I do enjoy the 'kitchen sink' of the Resourceful Warlord, and I think that party buffs are awesome.
Alternately, you might consider tweaking your power lineup. Hammer and Anvil is likely stronger on your current build than Warlord's Favor. Also, it looks like you might have a great party for Lamb to the Slaughter instead of Lead the Attack.
I always figured that a Charge attack was always the dumbest possible move to do in D&D, as well as being hard to pull off due to the way you have to move on squares. A +1 to attack for 1-3 opponents versus a +3 for all allies in 5 squares... Lead the Attack seems far better.
In any case, I recommend rethinking at least one of your at-will selections. Opening Shove is a trap. [...] Furious Smash is a very situational power unless you start with a Charisma of 18 and increase it at every level (with 16 Cha you lose damage vs. a MBA, so it's only good use is for setting up a power that has a very strong effect on a hit). I think you want at least one at-will power that is superior to a melee basic attack, and right now, neither of your choices is that.
Agree. I went with Rousing Assault instead.
Here's a q, though. If I use Rousing Assault and then follow it up with Stand the Fallen, do all allies get my Cha bonus twice in HP?
[sblock=New Powers List]Basic Attack: Melee Basic Attack
Basic Attack: Ranged Basic Attack
Half-Elf Racial Power: Knack for Success
Warlord Feature: Inspiring Word
Warlord Attack 1: Furious Smash
Warlord Attack 1: Rousing Assault
Warlord Attack 1: Hammer and Anvil
Warlord Attack 1: Lead the Attack
Warlord Utility 2: Flash of Insight
Warlord Attack 3: Inspire Resilience
Warlord Attack 5: Stand the Fallen[/sblock]