Hardhead said:
Hopefully, we call all agree that kids playing with guns is bad,
Considering I grew up in a a quasi-rural midwestern environment where just about everyone had a .22 before they were 12 & I was involved with competitive marksmanship since from about age 10, you will have to excuse me for not agreeing with such an absolute (and IMO inaccurate) statement.
EricNoah said:
After the other pastor had left, my dad admitted he was afraid that I'd say I'd bought D&D books in front of this other pastor. I then admitted to him that I was afraid that *he* would ask if I'd bought D&D books in front of this guy.
We had a good laugh, though in a sense it wasn't totally a laughing matter as our denomination did not look kindly on RPGs at the time. He could have gotten in somewhat serious trouble. (Though that never bothered my dad, he was always kind of a lone wolf in the church anyway...)
Didn't it bother you to belong to a group from which you felt it necessary to hide portions of your life?
I apologize if the question is too personal, but it is something that I have never understood as I have always been more of the "this is who I am, accept it or get lost" type. BTW I hope that doesn't come across as implying that RPGs are fundamentally incompatible with Christianity/Religion as it's possible to find denominations that cover just about every concievable gamut of socio/economic/political/spiritual beliefs.
On the note at times there are posters who give the impression that they don't really like the groups they game with. Why would you play with folks you don't like?! (Or participate in any social activity for that matter.)
Hardhead said:
Two of our players come from deeply conservative religious familys. One, quite literally, had his RPG books burned by his family when they were discovered by his parents as a teen. He's in his 30s now with kids of his own, and his father regularly tells him that he's going to Hell. It's almost too stereotypical to be believed, but it's true. This guy ended up pagan (before giving up on that religion too, and becoming agnostic). He was raised as a Bible-thumper, but the D&D books opened up not only the idea of another religion being true, but opened the door on meeting the many non-Christians that are a part of the hobby. His "fall" from Christianity is directly linked to his playing of D&D.
post hoc, ergo propter hoc (ie It happened after, so it was caused by)
I think it very likely that D&D was a sympton rather than the cause. It sounds like the friction between father & son went far beyond playing D&D. I'd say it's quite probable that the above individual would have found a different path than his father regardless of outside influences.
DMScott said:
About the only circumstances under which I interact with a stranger to the point that I learn they're christian is when they're trying to convert me. I've noticed that one tactic during such conversion attempts is to tell me the other things I'm doing "wrong", so D&D will likely be treated negatively.
My experiences have been quite different. I have often come across strangers who are able to express their faith without it being used to berate me. More than once I have received a "God bless you" or similar benediction without any response expected in return.
The one notable exception was shortly after Carl Sagan's death. I was purchasing a copy of his book
The Demon-Haunted World when the clerk snidely remarked "I wonder if he believes in God
now"? Needless to say I was quite taken aback by the sheer nastiness of her tone.
aurance said:
None of the gamers I know really pride themselves on being different. We all just play a game we happen to enjoy.
I really don't think gamers in general have any special rejection of mainstream stuff.
Agree 100%
Just about everyone I've gamed with as an adult has been either military, former military, government contractor or government employee. Married w/kids & working to pay mortagages, we're pretty mainstream.
Hardhead said:
No, it prohibits any two different kinds of cloth. The King James Version says:
However, almost all modern translations (excpet those like 21st Century King James and the like, which really aren't modern translations, anyway) render it more correctly.
...and what does the the original Hebrew say? (Since it's the only one that really matters.)