Kanegrundar
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Failed as well...that's just...wrong...Joshua Dyal said:Rel, reveal and Joshua Dyal. Ménage à trois of HELL!
Everyone make a SAN check now, please.
I'll be in the corner gibbering incoherently and crapping myself...
Failed as well...that's just...wrong...Joshua Dyal said:Rel, reveal and Joshua Dyal. Ménage à trois of HELL!
Everyone make a SAN check now, please.
stevelabny said:See, she's actually gonna take the advice to try to fix the problem on her end. And I'm willing to bet if she relays this story to her gaming group, they'll start to ease up on her too.
Is there where I give her a hug ??(and slap a sign on her back that says "Kick me! I'm a gamer!")
and thats the secret of bluntness.
you run the risk of making the person mad, but when they calm down they see the truth that lies at the center.
when you try to tip-toe around stuff and sugar-coat it and be comforting, you dont run the risk of making the person mad, but theres a good chance they will never pick up the hints and the problem will never be resolved.
I don't mind being the bad guy for a few minutes in order to fix a problem.
I will give the advice someone might not want to hear, I will tell the smelly gamer he smells, and I will get the problematic employee fired. And then the world will be a better place.
The truth might hurt for a bit, but then it sets you free. Or something.
Acquana said:Or it makes you kind of a jerk. We are all happy you're not a therapist.
But whatever.
I think what most people found objectionable was that he would attempt to get work colleagues that he disliked fired. How would you feel if someone at work was trying to get you fired for no other reason than they disliked you?BrooklynKnight said:Yanno, she did take what steve said pretty well, she even saw his point. SHE wasnt upset by how he approached the topic. Why should anyone else be.
stevelabny said:See, she's actually gonna take the advice to try to fix the problem on her end. And I'm willing to bet if she relays this story to her gaming group, they'll start to ease up on her too.
Is there where I give her a hug ??(and slap a sign on her back that says "Kick me! I'm a gamer!")
and thats the secret of bluntness.
you run the risk of making the person mad, but when they calm down they see the truth that lies at the center.
when you try to tip-toe around stuff and sugar-coat it and be comforting, you dont run the risk of making the person mad, but theres a good chance they will never pick up the hints and the problem will never be resolved.
I don't mind being the bad guy for a few minutes in order to fix a problem.
I will give the advice someone might not want to hear, I will tell the smelly gamer he smells, and I will get the problematic employee fired. And then the world will be a better place.
The truth might hurt for a bit, but then it sets you free. Or something.
stevelabny said:PBartender... thanks for saying I have a point, but I think you run off on the same incorrect idea that this other girl is being petty and vengeful. I dont think its a case of "You picked one me, so now I pick on you", I think its more like "You picked on me publicly, now you pick on me silently, go away"
Raven Wintervale said:No. My boyfriend in High School played RPGs. We're not together anymore.
Raven Wintervale said:I think it's time I have a talk with my boyfriend as to what I've been doing on my Saturday afternoons. I think I should tell him right off, but as for my other friends I think it would be a little odd to just flat out tell them but I woun't hide it from them either, so if it comes up it comes up. We'll see what happends from there.