Wow, so this thread started back when people still thought VoP was overpowered. Not that much in BoED isn't overpowered...
Anyway, there do need to be more epic feats. Here are two we have, I need to think up more sometime. As for epic... I don't know what to give VoP in epic to make it competitive w/ gear. I'm thinking of a "token" system where you get one "token" each epic level and there's just a massive list of stuff you can choose from at the cost of one token, renewable each day. Things like flight, or haste, other buffs, etc...
On to the non-epic stuff:
Thoughtweave [Exalted]
Prerequisites: Wis 13
Benefit: You gain telepathy out to 15 feet, but you can only use this telepathy to communicate with other creatures with the Thoughtweave feat. You may use Thoughtweave to communicate with any creature that has Thoughtweave within 15 feet of a creature that you can communicate with. (Thus, you can communicate with a creature with this feat 25 feet away as long as another creature with this feat is within 15 feet of both of you.)
This is a Supernatural ability.
Piety [Exalted]
Prerequisites: Wis 15
Benefit: You can use your wisdom modifier to qualify for other exalted feats, in place of your charisma modifier.
These feats were made to accomodate a party w/ an exalted Druid and Monk, sorry for the wisdom focus in them.