That says it all right there! I liked a lot about 3E, but the work load to get the game to where it pleased me was just overwhelming, especially at higher levels (about 10th for me). I even bought all the software aids to help me create NPC's, etc... The more I did it the more I remembered, "I didn't need all this crap back in 1E and 2E."
So one day I gave up and went back to an "old school style" of game. I haven't been this happy since I last ran 2E. In fact I think I am happier now than I ever was in all of my old 1E or 2E days.
I took a look at 4E, played it for a couple of months. Simply put we were happier playing our "old school" games. So we set 4E aside and went back to having more fun.
I get that others think old school isn't as good, or as fun, as their newer systems are, thats fine, but I and my fellow gamers are far happier where we are, and that is all that matters. What pleases each of us best.
Greetings!
Well said, Treebore! Your sentiments made me reflect on several points.
I am a fan of 3.5, however, the increasing *work* involved to DM prep, etc, and the growing demands that a *computer* be used, with all the bells and whistles, as well as an observation that my players consistently virtually required use of a computer to make up and store their characters, modifications, etc, really began to strike me with a feeling of dissonance--I never had to do any of this back in the day, with AD&D.
Back in the day, module prep, character generation, monsters, and so on, were a *breeze* to do. I've been thinking about all that a lot lately, and with the advent of 4E, and the incurred costs of buying yet more libraries of stuff--as I gaze at my multiple bookshelves stuffed full of 3E/3.5 books and supplements--and their subsequent obselescence--has really reawakened in me a desire to just do an about-face as a customer and gamer, and start running an old-school AD&D campaign--
no computers, programs, software, or endless hours of prep-time required.

--with the added bonus that I no longer have to concern myself with feelings like I am on some kind of commercialized marketing treadmill, always needing to buy more, more, and more. I already have two complete sets of AD&D books, rules, and supplements.
Salute!
Semper Fidelis,
SHARK