As a man, I just find it pretty embarrassing seeing this type of thread and especially entire paragraphs written just to give advice to men about playing D&D with women. Isn't there even a Slayer's Guide to Female Gamers or something?
Actually, Oryan, I'm with you on this. Everytime I see one of these threads pop up on ENWorld, the advice I wind up giving is pretty much exactly what Mr. Tweet gave. And Mr. Tweet gave that advice when I was ten years old.
This thread is more about how little things have really changed in that regard. And that, more than anything else, bugs me. Because when this was originally written, people were still listening to MC Hammer, Vanilla Ice, and the New Kids on the Block.
I'd like to think we'd made at least
some progress since then.
Come on guys. Why does this topic always come up? Are women really that foreign to you that you actually need advice on how to play a game with them? The only RPG advice we need about dealing with women is advice about roleplaying in the bedroom with them. That's it.
Not so sure about this bit. The fact that there are a lot of threads of this manner that pop up make me think that not everyone is as comfortable with this subject as you or I. There are, unfortunately, people with anxiety around women. Or people that are not used to being in a non-dating atmosphere with women.
Ruling those people out entirely because we believe it should not be so seems like the wrong course to take. And obviously, based on this article's publication date, it was a problem in 1993 at least as much as it's a problem in 2010.
I agree that it shouldn't be a problem, but for some people, it
is.
I actually had a GM that treated one of my female players on an entirely different level - changed his attitude, his presentation of NPCs, and how he arranged his plots. We suddenly found that there was less combat and more role-playing... even though our female player happens to be one of those bloodthirsty wenches.
It all kind of sucked.
Also, regarding role-playing in the bedroom... in all my past relationships, it's been banned. This may be entirely my fault, as the second it is mentioned, I inevitably say something like "Can I be a half-elven paladin?" before getting pummelled by the girlfriend in question.
True story.
Shouldn't that just be good advice regardless of it being a male or female player? I don't understand the need for distinction when it comes to female players.
Agreed.