Raven Crowking
First Post
Not "always say yes" - "try to say yes" as in not a knee jerk no. For me this is much more applicable to in game situations (swing on the chandalier - sure, throw the table at 2 mooks to nock them over - try it and quite likely - etc.).
This I agree with; but I don't think that the WotC advice reads like that at all, at all. Nor do I think that everyone who reads the WotC advice comes to this conclusion.
"Say Yes" in the WotC books is, IMHO, as much (or more) about selling splats as it is about DMing/GMing. If the DM is going to say No to your splat, there is no reason to buy it. If the DM is going to say Yes, you can "win the game" with your wallet.
(Actually, on further reflection, it is very, very suprising that TSR kept with the "Check with your DM first" line in the 2e era.)
RC