Emerikol
Legend
I was with you until you started with the - for no other reason.... Please understand that a lot of people find many of the 4e mechanics damaging to their fun. They have legitimate reasons. It's a preferences thing I agree but as legitimate as your own.I said something about grognards ignoring those who haven't played dnd. What I see requested, desired by many of them is nothing more than broken old mechanics that make no sense for no other reason than traditions sake because these things "feel" like DnD.
I think people can play either one and have fun. I've seen people go both ways. Start out with 4e and go to Pathfinder. And the reverse. I think to be honest it's a preferences thing and how we are wired. I'm not at all sure as some 4e people are that Pathfinder isn't growing the hobby just as fast as 4e.While I'm glad your nephews and niece enjoyed pathfinder nowhere in your statement do I see anything to compare it to. I DO have direct comparison from my attempts to introduce both 3.x and 4e to the same individual.
I'm not saying that any version of dnd CAN'T be fun for new folks but that in my experience with folks who have tried both 4e is superior for those who have no prior experience.
We all are giving our opinions. I tire of those who want to belabor us for it.I also don't claim that my experiences aren't universal but they are as valid as any one else's and they are enough to inform my opinion.
edit - by the way I am not defending wotc's products compared to paizo- I'm sure the introductory set by paizo was an excellent product especially compared to some of the initial 4e modules which were quite frankly atrocious. However the system for 4e was much easier for me to introduce than 3.x.
Even I will admit despite never having played any Paizo product that they appear to know the roleplaying game business far better than WOTC does. I don't think the rules for Pathfinder are especially good. I think that Pathfinder players are essentially a no vote for 4e. This is why I believe 5e has plenty of opportunity to capture the Pathfinder crowd. In addition to the fact that many will buy both as well.