I basically mention to any new players "I hold you to realistic consequences, I will kill you if the dice show up that way, etc." and then answer any questions they have about what I mean. Also, as a player, I've asked two GMs before not to fudge with me (a friend and my brother), but never not to fudge at all. So I know that it's explicit oftentimes when I'm involved, but I have no idea how widespread it is. As always, play what you like![]()
Hmm, when I'm a player I dont ask about fudging at all. I trust the GM to do it if/when its best for the game and to do it seldom enough and subtly enough not to mess up my perception of the games events. Basically the same courtesy I expect of players. If it gets really obnoxiously obvious I might ask him to tone it down and let us live by the dice a bit more i guess but thats never come up. I didnt get to be a player too often until recently when I started switching off with another GM.
I've noticed after spending a lot of years being behind the screen when I'm playing I find myself thinking a lot more about how to help the GM along and play along with where he wants to go and generally assist what he's trying to do then I did when I first started and only had experience as a player.