Holy skewed answers batman. Turning basically the question of "Is DOAM bad" and giving three options for "No" with semi-reasonable responses, but the "Yes" coming off as "I'm a jerk, my way or the highway." Wow.
Not that I think there needs to be another thread about this, I think I said all I need to back about 8 times ago. Yes I think DOAM is a problem (so I answered Yes to your skewed poll). I think it is a terrible mechanic. Depending on how central it is, I will not buy it. It is a giant hunk of poo in my chocolate ice cream. How much I can avoid it will decide whether I buy 5e. I don't know yet if I can avoid it, ignore it, not use it. I don't generally mind options for options sake, but in my games it absolutely needs to be one I can say "No, not allowed" with little to no effort and as of the last packet that simply is NOT the case.