Zhaleskra
Adventurer
Anyway, we use electronics at our table. At any given time, someone at the table is answering text messages and phone calls from work, spouses, kids, friends, and others. The game isn't that important to introduce conflict. I feel lucky that as busy adults we even find the time to get together and play for 4 hours given all the craziness in our lives.
I take the opposite side on the socialization: we're at the game to interact with the people present. As far as I'm concerned, unless it's an emergency your spouse or kids should not be calling, IMing, or texting you while you're at the game. Same opinion for friends. The game is the important reason for being together for me. While there is some bull, once we get going, I prefer that concentration be on the game. This is part of the reason I was originally opposed the ides of both the "casual" and "hardcore" gamers.