Aenghus
Explorer
As it happens I'm on the autism spectrum and prone to taking thing literally. But I had a different motivation in my comment.I'll explain the analogy as you seem to have taken it literally.
I just thought it ironic that the analogy is far less appropriate to RPGs than in most other fields. And I am literal minded.The earth is the PCs. The sun is the game world. The game world is always bigger than the PCs.
I disagree, as there are no perfect groups, just us flawed fallible humans, who are permitted to pursue happiness. This may involve player expectations and styles of RPG play you disagree with but even so work for other people.I know, and I'm railing against it as poor to awful design as all it does is make the PCs into special snowflakes, which if left unchecked and-or without the perfect group to play it leads to overentitled players and doormat or processor-unit DMs.
Assuming the DM is unwise enough to reveal whatever decision-making process is being used at a given time, then yes. I know that my answer if asked about this as a DM would usually boil down to a polite version of "none of your business" which would get less polite each successive time I was asked.
I've been a referee for decades and I'm not that precious about my decision making (I may or may not provide some explanation but I'm certainly not annoyed or irritated by appropriate polite requests as I understand them and their motivations). Many players will want some model of the referee's decision making process, especially how and when it deviates from the agreed on system and mechanics, to aid in their own decision making.
Back in the bad old days I asked refereees lots of question and sometimes got a response similar to your "none of your business" above. Sometimes I was browbeaten into silence by such responses from referees, which didn't make for an enjoyable game for me, as I need lots of information to make decisions and avoid analysis paralysis. In some cases I should have left the game as not suiting me. In others the referee got better at his job, or an alternate referee replaced them.
I don't sign social contracts. I just say (again in more flowery terms) "here's my game, here's the rules and system, here's the game world - check it out then either sit down and play or get up and leave".![]()
There are always social contracts, the unwritten ones just tend to be fuzzier and less well defined.