I've found that just paying attention to what people say in their posts works.
Well that comment was certainly helpful.
How often do people refer to their own gender in a post? I certainly don't make a habit of it.
On an anonymous internet forum, I do my best to assume people have no gender until they tell me otherwise. However, when I went through school and learned how to write, I was taught to use the male pronoun as the default in almost all cases (with certain exceptions because "English").
Obviously that is no longer the norm, which is why I try not to do it. But old habits can creep up on you if you aren't paying attention. It's just something that happens from time to time, there is no nefarious agenda behind it.
