Lanefan
Victoria Rules
In case my previous posts haven't already made this obvious: in cases like this I don't really give a tinker's damn what the RAW says.It doesnt neccesarily, any more than a dagger sticks in you every time a melee weapon attack scores a 'hit'.
Remember - RAW Hit Points represent 'luck, resolve and the will to live' (in addition to health). They also represent fighting skill and experience (which is why martials get more, and you get more as you advance in experience level).
When what's written in the rules fails to pass the reality test then out go those rules, to be replaced with something better and (I hope) more sensible.
And of changing what were once simple definitions of the words 'hit' and 'miss', which I decline to do.Among other things Hit Points are also 'Luck points' and 'Fighting skill and experience at avoiding blows points'.
An attack roll that scores a 'hit' against your AC might not actually strike you at all, instead being parried or dodged (using your experience and fighting skill) at the last second, or luckily glancing off armor or striking a nearby wall or door frame, or be resolutely stared down instead of striking you.
Its a question of narration.
If I 'hit' something that means that I, or my weapon, somehow made enough actual contact with the target to reduce the target's ability to withstand further such contact.
Otherwise you're left trying to narrate a damaging hit as being in fact a miss, which (99% of the time) doesn't make sense at all.
Yeah, you really don't know me very well, do you?When you read a DnD novel and read Drizzt whirling around parrying blows and dodging attacks, and blows glancing off his armor, he's losing hit points. Thats just how the 'hits' are narrated.
He has a lot of Hit Points, so he dodges and parries blows and gets lucky with attacks glancing off armor, and demonstrates resolve to keep fighting for a long time and the like constantly.

(hint: there is no character or persona in all of gaming that I detest more than I do Drizzt, thus using him as an example to make a point is, with me, invariably going to have the opposite effect from what was intended...)