Your style is more the latter to me, and I have learned not engage people who display that posting style when they press for more information, or specifics.
To me, this is strongly suggestive that you don't have good evidence or specifics. I mean you are saying "I have learned...", well so have I. I've been arguing on the internet literally since I was a child (look they've done to me!), and my very long experience is that when people roll out excuses not to provide evidence after repeatedly making an argument that relies on it, one of two things is true:
A) The evidence is really complicated and requires research and is annoying to provide. This is a fair enough reason in a lot of ways.
or
B) They ain't got no evidence, or their evidence is incredibly flimsy, or just obviously subjective in the extreme.
If people have strong evidence, even if they think I'm a jerk, they tend to just drop it in the thread and go "how about THAT eh?!". And there have actually been a number of times where I've had to go "Oh, ok, damn, alright...". People always act like it's the first time in human history I've ever admitted I'm wrong when I've actually done it an awful lot of times!
I'm sure there are Cs or Ds, but like you, I have experiences that lead me to believe it's A or B and here it seems like B. I could be wrong.
Let me just say one thing you might like - I do believe that with
sufficient restrictions, you
can eventually reach a situation where pablum is very likely, or if not pablum, then extremely same-y material. So we may not be as far apart as you think.
Specifically, I once read a blog (I forget what, it's still going though, I saw it linked a few weeks ago), which is about fantasy and SF, both literary, TV and RPGs. They had this article, about what you should and shouldn't do if you write a fantasy novel. And it was extremely prescriptive. Not all of it was about social consciousness or the like, indeed most of it wasn't, but all the prescriptions (and they were presented as such, like actively saying "You're a bad person if you don't do this", rather than the mild suggestion here that it's useful to consider this, and one should endeavour to be aware of origins) pushed one the writer the idea that they should write something utterly MoR and bland, and that deviating from this made you a bad person (IIRC, the article was just as extreme in suggesting not coming up with an alternative calender as they were in saying "you shouldn't have homophobia in your books, even when the homophobes are purely negative!". Which is very different from saying "Have a think about why you're including homophobia in your books". It's easy to think about something and go "Okay, I have a valid reason!", but without thinking, it's easy to say "I'll just do this because it makes sense, without considering that maybe the reason you think it makes sense is a cheap trope, or an unfortunate tradition or the like.
If all authors had followed the prescriptions in that article, we'd have very bland fantasy, and that would suck. But in fact few have - now some have (presumably accidentally) followed some/most of the prescriptions, and still produced vivid works, but I do see how if everyone follows really prescriptive standards about what they must output, rather than just thinking about their choices a bit more, then that could be bland.
The reason I ask for evidence though, is that I don't believe TT RPGs have begun to approach the "pablum point" re: restrictions due to social consciousness. I do think a lot of pablum RPG material has come into existence trying to target a very broad audience in terms of age/complexity/etc., but much of that does contain problematic stuff that shows a lack of what you call social consciousness! I know you think I'm a Bad Man (TM) who will do Bad Things (C) to your posts, and okay, fair enough, but that is why I want evidence, because I think this could happen, but I can't think of any examples
yet, nor do I think current suggestions make it at all likely.
Are you aware that you can compare argument forms without comparing the details of the argument? If your argument is A + B = C and another argument also follows that form, I can say that the forms are equivalent without saying the details are equivalent. That's what I did. I compared the argument forms, not the details. Those are my words.
As I said, you engaged in false equivalence.
A punch is objective. The harm you're describing is extremely subjective, and indeed, hard to quantise. But your argument literally doesn't work unless the harm is objective, hence you had to use that kind of argument. You weren't punched. If you want analogy (why? It only makes things less clear), then you were not saying "Don't punch me", you were saying "Stop insulting me!", and the other person does not perceive what they're saying as an insult and there's no objective measurement which suggests it is.