Hussar
Legend
See, I think part of the issue is, some people look at the traditional D&D races as somehow more acceptable to humans than other, later added races, while, others, like myself, don't see the difference.
Elves are alien. In 5e, they are gender fluid, virtual immortal fey creatures descended from invaders from ANOTHER FREAKING DIMENSION. But, that's apparently less alien than a Tabaxi or an Orc, either of which are from this reality, are completely relatable to a human and, other than some obvious physical differences like lots of hair or honking big underbites, aren't actually all that different from your average human?
And, at the end of the day, I think that's where the true issue lies. People, for various reasons, treat the Tolkien races as "acceptable" without any real question. For me, I can't really buy into that. Elves are just as alien as Tieflings. What's the difference that your ancestor was a demon from another dimension, or a fairy from another dimension? If one is capable of wandering into the local pub without any reaction from the locals, then why isn't the other?
But, many DM's, when world building, don't bother looking at the wider D&D additions to race that have been going on for decades. They stick with the base five or six and figure that that's job done and then get pissy when players want something different. I mean, good grief, races like Lupins have a pedigree in the game almost as long as gnomes. But, while taking a gnome wouldn't even cause the slightest reaction from most DM's (with a couple of setting exceptions), if I came to the table with a Lupin, I'm apparently a "problem player" who wants a "flavor of freak" character.
Like I said, for me, I see it as rather a bit of hypocrisy for DM's to claim that certain races are "flavor of freak" for no real reason other than they didn't appear in Tolkien.
Elves are alien. In 5e, they are gender fluid, virtual immortal fey creatures descended from invaders from ANOTHER FREAKING DIMENSION. But, that's apparently less alien than a Tabaxi or an Orc, either of which are from this reality, are completely relatable to a human and, other than some obvious physical differences like lots of hair or honking big underbites, aren't actually all that different from your average human?
And, at the end of the day, I think that's where the true issue lies. People, for various reasons, treat the Tolkien races as "acceptable" without any real question. For me, I can't really buy into that. Elves are just as alien as Tieflings. What's the difference that your ancestor was a demon from another dimension, or a fairy from another dimension? If one is capable of wandering into the local pub without any reaction from the locals, then why isn't the other?
But, many DM's, when world building, don't bother looking at the wider D&D additions to race that have been going on for decades. They stick with the base five or six and figure that that's job done and then get pissy when players want something different. I mean, good grief, races like Lupins have a pedigree in the game almost as long as gnomes. But, while taking a gnome wouldn't even cause the slightest reaction from most DM's (with a couple of setting exceptions), if I came to the table with a Lupin, I'm apparently a "problem player" who wants a "flavor of freak" character.
Like I said, for me, I see it as rather a bit of hypocrisy for DM's to claim that certain races are "flavor of freak" for no real reason other than they didn't appear in Tolkien.