At one point tieflings were monstrous races. So were dragonborn. Now they are in the staple (and half-orcs that made it in early). So there is change. It might not be fast enough for you, but no doubt, there is change.
See, but Tielfings were basically never a "monstrous race"
Tieflings were introduced in 1994 in Planescape, already a playable option. They stayed a non-core playable option until 2008 when they were in the Core Player's Handbook. That is 14 years. They even got their own dedicated book in 2010, two years later.
We are now in 2021, an additional 13 years later, after they showed up in the Core Books. They are still in the PHB, and they are still considered weird and exoctic by many people. Now I'm not sure which number we should focus on, the 27 years since they were introduced, or the 13 years that they have been in the Core Player's Handbook, but either way it seems beyond strange that we are still saying that they "just need time"
And some of these other options are even older. Lizardfolk first got playable stats in Dragon Magazine #185, in 1992, that is 29 years ago. And let us not forget that DnD is only 47 years old this year. That means that for nearly two-thirds of DnD's history playing a lizardfolk has been an option. Never a core option, but one nearly as old as the game itself (only an 18 year gap)
Actually, here is a fun fact. Gnomes were introduced in the first ever Player's Handbook, in 1978. Yet, if you look at the wiki page for that player's handbook it states "The book also included information on non-human races, such as dwarves, elves, and halflings, character abilities,..." And when we talk about the "main" races, what do we say?
Oh yeah, the "Core Four" yet, there have always been more. In fact they included "Human, Elf, Dwarf, Halfling, Half-Elf, Half-Orc, and Gnome" and I believe that it was either this book or the accompanying MM that had rules for Monsters as Playable characters.
So, why do we say "Core Four"? Why do we think that Human, Elf, Dwarf, Hobbit are the foundations of DnD?
Yeah, sorry Chaos, we just really have a different view on these things. From your take on Tolkien to your take on DM, we just disagree. I often find your word choice off-putting. For example, you imply the above DM isn't really doing the work. Or, if they did they and you don't directly see it, they "wasted (their) time." As a DM that tries to use show don't tell, and one that tries to limit their explanations of the world, I find it a bit rude. Maybe I'm just soft skinned though.
No, I think you are conflating what I am saying with something else.
I'm not implying the DM in that example isn't doing the work. I am stating that if they do not do the work, I will judge them for it.
If they came to me and said "I spent hundreds of hours on this world of the Blade coast, with the city of Everwinter and there is a powerful wizard called Leminster" Then I'm going to be highly skeptical they really devoted hundreds of hours to the game world. Maybe they did, but it is all stuff so far behind the scenes that all I can see is a poorly painted copy of the Forgotten Realms.
And maybe you think "Well no one would actually do that", but I have seen very very poor rip-offs of more popular settings and stories. Not in DnD, I'll give you that, but I would not be surprised that it happens.
Yes. I understand. This is your style. No DM should be beholden to your style though. It's great you have done the work. But the key is, you have done the work. In your example, you have done the work. The work is done. If a DM has done his world building work, and is now going to focus on the nuances, such as NPCs and character arcs and dungeon design and accents they want to try and painting their minis prior to encounters, etc. Then they are allowed to say no to the player.
Time is limited commodity. DMs should be allowed to use it how they see best.
Time is a commodity. I'll grant you that, but no player then ever has a chance. DMs build their worlds before they bring them to the players, so no player would ever have a chance to try something the DM didn't think of .
And I'll be frank with you, and this may be just my style, but I'd rather get the chance to work in a new race or a new section of the world than have a painted miniature or the DM talk in an accent.
Especially since, after the game starts, then they have plenty of time to paint their minis and practice their voices.
But again, I guess that is just my style. I don't bother with miniatures, too poor, so maybe it really does require so much extra work.