Thomas Shey
Legend
If, instead, it's clear that game groups are social gatherings of peers to play a game where players have different roles, but the overall group is responsible for the group's social contract, then there's less chance that abuse can happen, regardless of how prevalent or not you think it is. Certainly, an approach that is more egalitarian and reduces possible abuse is better than one that clings to traditional views and doesn't prevent the abuse, isn't it? I think so. No big if you disagree -- again, we aren't policing each other's tables. But I'm still going to advocate strongly for a more healthy overall hobby.
Like I said, when I get the faintest sign most gaming groups would be any better trying to police their social contract internally, I'll be right with you. But I'm afraid all my experiences point to the contrary.