I'm the same way. Fortunately, so are my players.This is a funny topic to me because I can't imagine not getting together with friends and having fun because of a rule set.
This is the current situation in my group.4e would only cause a schism in that I'd be finding a different group if I was hellbent on running 4e.

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Rulebook featuring "high magic" options, including a host of new spells.