Emerikol
Legend
I think this is a reasonable position UNTIL you receive the session 0 information in advance. If you never receive any session 0 information, a big mistake by the DM, then assuming the PHB is available should be a given. I wouldn't assume anything beyond the PHB without contacting the DM.If I sign up to play Star Trek, there are no Wookies but I would expect Vulcans. If sign up to play LotR/MERP, there are no Dragonborn but I would expect Dwarves. If I sign up to play D&D, I would expect Elves and Dragonborn, both of which are right there in the rulebook.
Now maybe Artra is sufficiently compelling, despite its lack of Elves, that I can get on board. But speaking at least for myself, I wouldn't have the sort of independent interest in an Artra game that I might have in a Star Trek or LotR/MERP game.
I find the number of races in D&D to be way too numerous for my tastes. Even if I liked them all, I wouldn't like them all at once. I do like some newer races and I dislike others. If I really really dislike a race then of course I will ban it. Why DM a game when something you hate is front and center??
The key here is not forcing people who wouldn't enjoy gaming together to game together. They key here is figuring out in advance whether you want to game together and gaming with people who share your interests play style wise.