Starman
Adventurer
Ravlek said:To me it is not about insisting:
From dictionary.com
association
1. The act of associating or the state of being associated.
associate
v. associated, associating, associates
1. To join as a partner, ally, or friend.
The paladin is associating with the priestess.
Some good idea's in the rest of your post.
Sometimes, just sometimes, a strict adherence to the rules can get in the way of a good story. When that happens, jettison the rules.
Starman