The Crimson Binome
Hero
It is simply the nature of systems of equations, that they demand solving. Perhaps they do not call as strongly to you as they do to others.By whom? I don't recall seeing that in the PHB or DMG.
Not in the slightest. Given that the rules of the game reflect the reality of the game world, a player choosing to optimize based on the mechanics is simply a reflection of a character choosing to optimize their own chance of success, which is entirely expected of anyone in a highly dangerous line of work.If one is optimizing they are inherently meta-gaming. No I personally don't have an issue with that, but to some that is anathema to role-playing.
In fact, refusing to optimize is often a strong indication of meta-gaming, since it so frequently relies upon the player making assumptions about how the world works based on the real world (or other fictional worlds) rather than the actual reality of the game world.