Herobizkit
Adventurer
Kylo Ren 'hero worships' Darth Vader and wants to be like him.
Presumably, Vader's, uh, career path (the stuff we don't see) that leads to his being the right-hand man to the Emperor himself are very big shoes to fill.
When Kylo Ren fails, he takes that failure very personally. It makes him frustrated and angry that things aren't going as well for him as they did (?) for Darth Vader.
Then he meets Rey. Someone who doesn't even want to deal with the Force, and she turns his mind probe around and thwarts him. She came upon that pretty easily and he knows it. This makes him very angry.
Now here's this same girl later down the road, picks up LUKE'S lightsaber of all things and proceeds to hold her own against a (severely wounded, of course) Kylo Ren, and just when it looks like a victory is hand, the very earth itself opens up, separating the two. This probably makes Ren very angry.
Anger leads to hate.
Hate leads to the Dark Side.
And cookies!
Point is, Kylo does some bad stuff, but it's not what you DO that fuels the Dark Side, but what you FEEL. Killing all those innocents was a dick move, sure, but what he actually gets emotional about is trying to be a Uber-Sith while everyone around him is doing better than him at everything.
That's pretty childish, I guess.
Presumably, Vader's, uh, career path (the stuff we don't see) that leads to his being the right-hand man to the Emperor himself are very big shoes to fill.
When Kylo Ren fails, he takes that failure very personally. It makes him frustrated and angry that things aren't going as well for him as they did (?) for Darth Vader.
Then he meets Rey. Someone who doesn't even want to deal with the Force, and she turns his mind probe around and thwarts him. She came upon that pretty easily and he knows it. This makes him very angry.
Now here's this same girl later down the road, picks up LUKE'S lightsaber of all things and proceeds to hold her own against a (severely wounded, of course) Kylo Ren, and just when it looks like a victory is hand, the very earth itself opens up, separating the two. This probably makes Ren very angry.
Anger leads to hate.
Hate leads to the Dark Side.
And cookies!
Point is, Kylo does some bad stuff, but it's not what you DO that fuels the Dark Side, but what you FEEL. Killing all those innocents was a dick move, sure, but what he actually gets emotional about is trying to be a Uber-Sith while everyone around him is doing better than him at everything.
That's pretty childish, I guess.