catsclaw227
First Post
OK, so last night when I read that the whole thing was a hoax, I had to step away and sleep on it before coming back to post. I have read through this whole thread and everyone's comments.
When I first read about his coma, it brought back memories. I went through a very difficult coma with someone who was one of my best friends (if not the best friend). I had an emotional moment with my wife, discussing my experience as well as her experience going into a coma when she was 13 years old in Russia and found out she had Diabetes, Type I.
In the original thread, just after we got the "Rev woke up" message, I posted that I had a cynical thought that it was a hoax. I had to fluff it up, sugar-coat it, and dance around the fact that I though it was fake, but I was SO VERY GLAD it wasn't fake. In that post, I mentioned my friend, and I was relieved that it wasn't a hoax and that my mixed emotions weren't justified.
EDIT: I was really worried that I would be crucified by posting my hoax concerns, even though I buffered it.
Then Rev posted about how he needed to stay in the hospital for a little bit and then do physical therapy. This felt like confirmation that my hoax fears were happily unjustified.
Now I feel ticked off, angry at Rev (and, apparently, the many incarnations of Rev), and I agree with the permaban. I don't know why he did it, what his motivations were, but that doesn't matter.
I gleaned from Umbran's post that Rev and the moderators disagreed about whether his reasons justified their moderation actions.
This gives me the impression that this was another social experiment and we were the rats.
Not funny, not appropriate, not cool.
BTW, isn't a "side investigation" by a bunch of forum members that reveals the identity of community members a violation of the privacy we agreed to?
When I first read about his coma, it brought back memories. I went through a very difficult coma with someone who was one of my best friends (if not the best friend). I had an emotional moment with my wife, discussing my experience as well as her experience going into a coma when she was 13 years old in Russia and found out she had Diabetes, Type I.
In the original thread, just after we got the "Rev woke up" message, I posted that I had a cynical thought that it was a hoax. I had to fluff it up, sugar-coat it, and dance around the fact that I though it was fake, but I was SO VERY GLAD it wasn't fake. In that post, I mentioned my friend, and I was relieved that it wasn't a hoax and that my mixed emotions weren't justified.
EDIT: I was really worried that I would be crucified by posting my hoax concerns, even though I buffered it.
Then Rev posted about how he needed to stay in the hospital for a little bit and then do physical therapy. This felt like confirmation that my hoax fears were happily unjustified.
Now I feel ticked off, angry at Rev (and, apparently, the many incarnations of Rev), and I agree with the permaban. I don't know why he did it, what his motivations were, but that doesn't matter.
I gleaned from Umbran's post that Rev and the moderators disagreed about whether his reasons justified their moderation actions.
This gives me the impression that this was another social experiment and we were the rats.
Not funny, not appropriate, not cool.
I don't think anyone can say their little corner was "most devastated". The coma story apparently hit a lot of people in very personal ways. There is no "hurt more than other people" thing going on here.That was before the HIVE's side investigation revealed that a good deal of the people who posted there never existed. They were all alts. of Rev. A lot of us had our suspicions but we never wanted to investigate before last night..
Sadly, our little corner of ENWorld is the most devastated.
BTW, isn't a "side investigation" by a bunch of forum members that reveals the identity of community members a violation of the privacy we agreed to?
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