iserith
Magic Wordsmith
I was trying to be nice, but yeah, that's basically my reaction as well.
I mean, that's more on me than them to be fair.
I've watched games where the DM was going all-out on the acting, and the players just sat there and watched. They weren't really engaged in the game. They seemed to forget that they were even playing characters. It was like the DM was putting on a show for them and they were just along for the ride. Whereas at other times, like with the successful DM I mentioned in my original post, I've seen DMs fumble their way through interactions, obviously struggling to come up with something for an NPC to say, and yet the players were completely engaged and into their characters. The conclusion I draw is that acting stifles players and their engagement in the game.
Like anything else it depends, but I have been running for a lot of new players lately and observing other people's games and there is something to this in my experience.