Scott Christian
Hero
Yeah, rereading it sounds toxic. But my thought is really, we've all seen players like this. I have played with several of them, and, while I prefer players that are much more prepped, these players do play. Therefore, there really isn't a need to dismiss them, just like the video dismisses DMs that do a lot of prep.Wow, that's a pretty toxic player mindset you are calling "legitimate" there. I thought about quoting a couple particularly apt lines from smells like teen spirit summarizing that bolded bit, but it was just too reductive for how awful that player you describe is to their table. You seem to have taken comments about overprepping to meet unrealistic expectations placed on GM's then used them to justify a level of disinterest from players that shows complete disdain for their fellow players
That is the point I was trying to make. We've seen no-prep DMs, and we've seen prep DMs, and we've seen high-prep DMs. They are all legitimate DMs. There is a chance we've had fun with all of them. There is an even greater chance we've had more fun with the DMs who prepped - especially in a longer campaign.
We've all seen no-prep players, prep players, and high-prep players. They are all legitimate players. We have probably had fun with all of them at one point in time at a table we've DMed or played at. There is a much greater chance we've had fun with the ones that prep or high-prep.