Hmmm,
As a kid, I much preferred the battles and adventure energy of ROTJ to ESB. Even now, I think it gets underrated due to the Ewok factor. So, still a solid entry.
Star Trek Beyond is my legit favourite of the Kelvin era Treks. 2009 was all origin story, and Into Darkness is just bad and has not aged well at all (though I found it a fun theatre experience at the time). Star Trek Beyond better managed the ensemble, giving a bit more to the rest of the cast. And we got the most of the crew being the crew, which is the main strength of the Kelvin era. Yes, the stories have been weak, but I do love the cast.
As for the rest of Trek, yeah, I don't hate Star Trek 3 ... but is it 3 or 4, given that 2-4 form a continuous narrative?