But people can disagree with part of a statement, or with a certain method, while still condoning prejudice. I'm not going to derail this thread by bringing the BLM and Oriental Adventures debates into this. Suffice to say that I see these debates a bit differently because I don't live in the US.
I find a significant difference between the Oriental Adventures debate, which I would say is fueled by a modern view of an out-of-date, out-of-print book that was written by it's authors -- with genuinely no disrespect or offense intended -- to be a fun addition to a game largely based in contemporary pop culture media references, and a community where outright bigotry, racism, sexism, prejudice, and other toxic behaviors
are ongoing and affecting new and veteran community members alike. There's a massive difference between unintentional disrespect in a fixed, static, historic work, and ongoing toxicity in an active community.
While one might lament the loss of the liberty of topics one might enjoy without a code of conduct restricting what's acceptable, it's more important to the health of a community to moderate it because there are always going to be people who are extraordinarily toxic that will be attracted to
any community that doesn't expel them for their bad behavior. That's sad, but that's reality.
If you're really interested in seeing what happens to communities that support unrestrained, unmoderated conduct, I suggest checking out Voat or 4chan. Thought I certainly recommend
against doing so.