Then why do you choose D&D of all things? D&D started out as a pure pawn stance hobby and there is no edition I would choose as positively supporting actor stance (many simply get in the way).
Maybe not in the real world, but this is a fantasy world that we're talking about. I'm not going to talk about overtly magical things like dragons and fireballs. It's a world that has apparently non-magical creatures that shouldn't exist in the real world - things like giant insects, hill giants and purple worms. So why not apparently non-magical martial daily abilities, as well?
The character has the Daily available: He sees that there could be an opportunity to use it and direct his allies.
Later that day, he no longer has that Daily available - he sees no opportunity for using that ability and does direct his allies to different choices according to the options he has now.
This isn't the Daily Hate thread. This is the "Can someone explain the "Daily Hate"?" thread. And apparently not.
So...why/what is it about have abilities of any kind limited to uses per day that gets everyone so annoyed or resistant if not outright "dealbreakery/I won't play if..."?