I'm seeing this type of thing happen in a lot of places anymore, not just game forums... The idea of you have to choose a side, and you either support everything that side says, or you risk letting the other side "win" has seemed to become dominant...
Paizo, I think, has one BIG thing going for them, and that's a very strong fanbase. You can see it here at EN World - Paizo has cultivated those that buy their products into a pretty strong force through business smarts and the ability to not piss off their customers. I've seen it said around here for those that have yet to play Pathfinder that Paizo can do no wrong, and I think this very ideal fanbase can work strongly in their favor.
I think the hardest part are always the little details that change. We had similar problems when converting from 3E to 3.5. or 3E to Arcana Unearthed/Evolved or Iron Heroes.The real concern I have is rules mastery. I know the core 3.5 rules pretty well, and I will lose some of that rules mastery if I were to switch completely to Pathfinder. That's why I hope they provide an "at-a-glace" summary of what the rules changes are.
We had similar problems when converting from 3E to 3.5. or 3E to Arcana Unearthed/Evolved or Iron Heroes.
I am a professional forum lurker, both at enworld and rpg.net. I enjoyed reading the passionate discussions, but I didn't write much, specially because English is not my first language.
But I'm very tired. In these last months something changed, and the struggle between D&D4 and 3.5/Pathfinder fans has evolved to something nasty. It's not discussing anymore. It's critizising every single step the other "side" takes, it's wishing the failure of WotC or Paizo, it's the desire to destroy the "opponent".
And I don't understand it. I know fans can be very passionate, but I can read people who are completely blind when talking about the other side. Come on, D&D4 really improves many features, and Paizo and other companies employ some of the better writers in the game industry. We cannot afford loosing either WotC or the 3PP.
I know I'm not a "big name" in these forums, but please, stop it.
You weren't a big fan of third party publishers previously, then? Because Goodman Games has done it for their convention modules, Green Ronin does it for Mutants & Masterminds, heck, even Human Head did it for Redhurst Academy of Magic.
Yes, the books do look nice, but they are by no means a first of their kind phenomenon.