Definitely. We all have the right to set our own boundaries and should not be upset with other people for doing the same.Right. But demanding a particular game include those preferences is. Calling it bad DMing if a game doesn't match your preferences is also just as bad IMO.
I'm actually super happy that Pathfinder Second Edition has implemented a rarity system because it make it much easier to have these discussions. I am a big fan of groups having the ability to customize games to their own tastes. I'm also a big proponent of GM judgement.
I just want everyone to advocate for what they are looking for so we have less poor matches in gaming.