Dear Bugaboo,
I can not believe you would even consider this. The man's character DIED, for crying out loud. What kind of DM are you? I mean, really.
In my campaign, DEAD is DEAD, and THAT is THAT. I have some female players, and let me tell you, they are HOT! But would I resurrect their characters in return for some nookie!? Hell NO! Them's the breaks, girlie, we play HARDCORE here! If you don't like it, why don't you just go play with some of them White Wolf Weenies, I hear they just start over with a VAMPIRE game when some munchkin HUNTER turned WEREWOLF bites the big one in the butt.
If you were a REAL DM, like me, this would never have even come up. She'd have been too scared to even mention the idea, because she would have KNOWN... you were a hardcore DM. Those HOT female players in my campaign? The topic has NEVER come up. That's right. That's how HARDCORE we are.
You can be, too. You just need to grow a spine.
Your bud,
Gnosaes (ignore the sig - that's my evil soft-bellied yellow-backed bleeding heart so-not-hardcore-it-hurts evil twin)