Technically, however, an enhancement on a dastana should stack with an enhancement to armor. Why?
Because of the way enhancement bonuses work.
You have a suit of armor which provides a +2 armor bonus to AC.
You have a dastana which provides a +2 armor bonus to AC, which stacks with that from armor.
Together, these provide a +4 armor bonus to AC.
If you enhance the suit of armor to +1, it now provides a (+2 +1) +3 armor bonus to AC.
If you enhance to dastana to +1, it now provides a (+2 +1) +3 armor bonus to AC, which stacks with that from armor.
Together, these provide a +6 armor bonus to AC.
It stacks because of the exact same rationale that allows enhancements to shields in 3.0 to stack with enhancements to armor in 3.0. Both are enhanced separately, both provide armor bonuses which stack with each other, and therefore the enhancements stack with each other.