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Do you have an emotional attachment to your job?

Do you have an emotional attachment to your job?

If, by "emotional attachment," you mean a hatred as deep as Mt. Everest is high, then, yes, I have an "emotional attachment" to my job.

My advice is to go for your "dream job" when you can still dream. Your "secure" job will (eventually) suck the life out of you faster than a Dementor at Hogwarts.
 

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I have an emotional attachment to my job. I am a computer systems guy and I love to play with new technology and such. I take downtime on the personal level so I often do whatever it takes to keep the computers up and running at all times. From this I sometimes end up working a lot of hours. Other times not so much, as a little bit of being proactive and you can end up with long strings of working eight to five days because of systems you have already put into place.
 

I am... well-suited to my job.

I have developed an emotional attachment to many (dozens) of the wonderful people I work with (and for).

I look at my job as a commitment I've made. I try to do the best I can. However, I also have commitments to myself, my family, my friends and my community. If I were to show commitment only towards work, I would consider that an obsession, not a commitment. As it works out, there are times when things in my personal life cause me to miss work, and times when things at work will cause me to miss out on bits of my personal life. As long as I keep things balanced and in perspective, I think I stand a better-than-average chance of remaining happy, healthy and sane.

Work became much easier to deal with when I realized I was worrying about a bunch of things I couldn't control and that I was not exercising much control at all over the one thing I always can command: my attitude. Since then, things have improved immensely.

-Dave
 


Mr. Lobo said:
That's interesting.

Hey, all you strippers over here on ENworld...

Do you love your job or have an emotional attachment to it or are you just doing it for college money?


Do you really think that, if there were any, they'd pipe up? ;)
 

Eh.

I think I'm pretty good at my job. For the most part, I've liked my co-workers (and met two of my best friends through the business).

What I don't like about it is:

1) Every ad agency is the same. I've worked at four big ones so far since college. They'll tell you that they're all different, but they're not. They'll tell you that they have "unique proprietary systems" for "identifying the target market" and "focusing on the people who really use the product" so that we can "think outside the box" and "incentivize consumers" with "outstanding creative product" and "targeted communications plans". Whatever. I've heard it and I'm not buying it.

2) All clients are the same. Some of them are nice. Some are jerks. But, business-wise, they're all the same. They're all afraid to take risks. They're afraid of doing something that hasn't been done before, but then they penalize you because you're not being creative in your thinking. They have all of these historical models to help them predict the effect of advertising on their sales, but since the models are based on "historical data", they can't account for anything new and different you might want to do. "Doing your job" as far as a client is concerned usually just means, "How do I keep the guy above me in the chain of command off my back?", not "How do I empower the ad agency to help sell more of my product?"

3) Management at ad agencies is, by and large, really bad. There's rampant cases of "face time" (managers thinking that just because you're at your desk that you must be working, and consequently if you're not at your desk, you must be slacking off). I've been pretty well taken care of, I guess, but just like any job, you witness things happening and say to yourself, "How can that be happening?"

4) Most managers at ad agencies are far too willing to just give up and do exactly what the client wants without fighting. They are paying me for my expertise, but when it comes down to it, they don't want my knowledge and expertise. They want me to do what they tell me to do.

5) Training has gone the way of the dodo bird. I train my teams (well, when I had a team). My "team" now consists of me and another woman who's been in the business for about 18 months. She's great, but between the two of us, we can't get our work done on time. So, we cut corners, and really she and I are just churning out work without putting a lot of thought into it. On one hand, it's "easier" because advertising (at least, what I do) is not really hard once you know what you're doing. The hard part is the strategy, the thinking, the planning... these days, with only two of us, the client doesn't get much of that. They get spreadsheets and numbers and graphs of competitive spending. I guess that's what they want, because they're not willing to pay the agency for most staff so that I can actually do what I was hired to do.

Other than that, advertising is great! My main satisfaction these days comes from finding time to train the junior-level people so they learn things the way I learned them ("the right way") as opposed to just learning how to get stuff done. They seem to have responded well to that in the past (before they all got laid off after a client fired the agency).
 

My current job is just that. In the past I have had jobs that were so engaging that I was often found there hours after work doing something productive.
 

Mr. Lobo said:
Yeah, but that's because her name was Candi (with an "i") and she was going to med school and studying for her PhD while trying to save all the homeless puppies and kittens while eating organic foods and working out in her new Corvette wearing a leather trenchcoat and cool shades and being really cool and stuff.
Oh you know her too? I was impressed until I found out med school was like "Mr. Li's Institute of Tai Chi Aromatherapy."

I pretty much make my job up as I go along, so it works for me.
 

My current job is the worst job I've had, not counting temp stuff. In the first 2 months I survived by calculating how much money I had made that day during lunch.

Then I went to Vegas with my coworkers, paid for by the company. That helped ease things over, not so much as a bribe, but because when I met all the other CSR's they all asked the same question. And I realized they all knew my boss was a crazy witch. I guess I took comfort in that. My boss lives to work; 12 hours a day 6 days a week. And I just discovered this week they cheated me (and the newer hire) out of a month of medical coverage. Today somebody quit, the second this year although the first was imcompetent.
 
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