I wish you could see me right now, because my jaw is literally hanging open.I suggested allowing the Martial Power books in my Forgotten Realms campaign, but my players objected, so I gave in and banned them again. B)
Well, I finally am tired of dealing with all the extra books and everything that goes with 3.5 or 4e...What do you think on this. Do you think my players will revolt, that I'll lose players...or that they'll be happy with whatever I DM?...Anyone else done this after years of basically allowing a LOT of the extra books into your games...what were your players reactions?
My answer to that is: As DM you have to make your game so awesome that the players like playing in a game you run MORE than they like anything that you feel needs to be excluded.You don't think this is a bit simplistic?
Players tend to like options. As a player, I know that I get frustrated with DMs who decide to arbitrarily limit the sources from which I can draw my character's abilities.
As a DM, do I occasionally get caught off-guard by an unfamiliar power or option? Sure. Do I let that minor frustration get to me? Heck no. My players deserve better than that.
I like Dice4Hire's approach above: the desires of the DM are more important than any single player, but less important than all the players.
I wish you could see me right now, because my jaw is literally hanging open.
*Picks jaw up*
Okay, help me wrap my head around this. I can understand players wanting specific options banned for balance reasons -- they don't want to be tempted with a cheesy trick and/or they don't want other players similarly throwing the game out of whack.
But whole books? I don't get it. If I'm not interested in eleven new martial builds or whatever, I just ignore them. Getting a book banned doesn't take if off my radar, so to speak, any more than ignoring it.
Help me, Obi Won S'mon, I'm confused!
There's nothing arbitrary about it. The DM is running the show, it should not be a requirement to cater to all. I LOVE core only as a player and DM. If players want everything under the sun they need to get behind the screen.