Geez... let's take a look at the three posts that precipitated the mess that may well cause the thread to be locked...
Melkor said:
I play evil because I find it FUN! It is fun to have absolute power over others, over those weaklings that tremble before you, fun to rule , to posess, to fullfill one`s desires, to ruthlessly destroy those that dare to stand on your way and all other things that I can`t do in real life!
SemperJase[/i]
Two high school students a few miles down the road from me felt the same way. The went to Columbine High School. [/quote]
[QUOTE][i]Originally posted by Dr_Rictus said:
Spare me. It demeans and cheapens the death of all of the victims of those poor, twisted kids to use them for such a transparently fallacious forensic trick. Shame on you. I'm sorry, but I really just can't put it in any more diplomatic terms than that. [/B]
My response to this whole thing?
I personally feel that Melkor's quote was in slightly poor taste - I don't know that "fun" is quite the right word.
It was probably in poor taste to bring up Columbine.
It was in still poorer taste to dismiss the Columbine incident out of hand as "irrelevant."
IMO, the difference between RPing evil characters - especially because "I find it fun" - and the Columbine shooters is merely one of degree. Granted, there is a rather hefty gap between them, but it's merely a different distance travelled down the same road.
Discussing Columbine doesn't disturb me.
Calling evil "fun" DOES disturb me.
I don't know about a lot of other DMs, but I consider playing evil NPCs a "necessary part of my job" - it's fun because I'm giving the (good and heroic) PCs a challenge to overcome and I have fun seeing them overcome it -
not because I get to lord my power over others.
I have posted similar thoughts in other areas, but I think it bears repeating here...
I think as time goes on, our perceptions of what is - and is not - in good taste and socially acceptable change based on life experience.
Personally, I find thoughts such as "It is fun to have absolute power over others, over those weaklings that tremble before you" rather disturbing. Perhaps it is fun for you, but that is a destructive sort of fun rather than a creative sort of fun. It's fun to ride a roller coaster and get an adrenaline rush (creative fun). It's fun to build a treehouse and play in it (constructive fun). To some, it is fun to pull a gun on someone, watch them plead for mercy, and then blow their head off (destructive fun).
There is a difference between wholesome/healthy and fun. That something is fun does not necessarily make it wholesome/healthy.
"fun to rule , to posess, to fullfill one`s desires, to ruthlessly destroy those that dare to stand on your way"
Again, destructive "fun." Personally, I think destructive fun is a sign of immaturity at best and personal problems at worst.
"and all other things that I can`t do in real life!" Now, I'll admit, I've felt this way from time to time (usually when I'm in Southern California traffic). I believe it is natural to have these urges and desires for absolute control.
However, I guess my definition of what is healthy as relates to "what do I do with these urges and desires for control and domination" is different than some peoples' definitions.
I believe that the healthy response is to work to eliminate these urges without acting on them (through self-discipline, religion, meditation, or whatever form of "elimination" you choose).
I believe that the unhealthy response is to act them out - even in fantasy.
It is quite true that nobody ever did a great evil without imagining himself doing it first. That does NOT mean that if you imagine yourself doing evil, you will then go and do evil (duh). It DOES mean that if you do not imagine yourself doing evil, you will not go and do evil.
What about a DM? I believe most DMs see their adventures through the eyes of the PCs, not the villains - the DM is not imagining himself doing evil, it's "someone else." I believe this is so simply because if the DM saw things through the villain's eyes, he wouldn't see the PCs that often - they'd be too busy whomping on his cronies instead - and he wouldn't appreciate the game.
That's about all I have. All three quotes were objectionable to me for various reasons, and I hope I have made clear why in a tactful and well-reasoned manner.
--The Sigil