I have one that I really feel bad about.
It happened two years ago and I had been running games for a small group. The thing was that I had always been running or playing in small groups and it was kind of a habit - a superstition perhaps - that great games only happen if you have a small group (GM + 3 players max.).
There was this really nice person who asked to join my game and he did in front of our mutual friends. At the time I had three players so I kind of panicked and outright denied him. Later on I allowed him to come and he has been playing with us for the past two years. I find him as an invaluable player and an integral part of our fun gaming experience.
It has just been haunting me always that I seriously disrespected him at the time and he has never been bitter towards me about the incident. I was simply so hung up with the idea that "small groups are the best" that I even disrespected a friend. Sometimes I think how much things would suck if I had had my way back then.
So my advice is this: Friendship is much more important than your silly ideas of goodrightfun.
It happened two years ago and I had been running games for a small group. The thing was that I had always been running or playing in small groups and it was kind of a habit - a superstition perhaps - that great games only happen if you have a small group (GM + 3 players max.).
There was this really nice person who asked to join my game and he did in front of our mutual friends. At the time I had three players so I kind of panicked and outright denied him. Later on I allowed him to come and he has been playing with us for the past two years. I find him as an invaluable player and an integral part of our fun gaming experience.
It has just been haunting me always that I seriously disrespected him at the time and he has never been bitter towards me about the incident. I was simply so hung up with the idea that "small groups are the best" that I even disrespected a friend. Sometimes I think how much things would suck if I had had my way back then.
So my advice is this: Friendship is much more important than your silly ideas of goodrightfun.