I'm A Banana
Potassium-Rich
I don't think it's healthy to expect designers to cater to the desires of a person or group of people who self-define as being completely unwilling to compromise.
It's simply a matter of the value one gets out of that compromise -- compromise to what end? It's entirely possible to have an enjoyable night with friends without D&D. And if playing D&D requires some sort of compromise (beyond the usual time and dedication required to even enjoy it in the first place), it'll have to be worth that compromise.
And spending the night being ineffective or not being the character you want to be is typically not worth that compromise.