TwoSix
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Because you're subtracting the max from the min, rather that subtracting max from 1st roll, you're in essence doubling your effective bonus. Subtracting (lowest 1 of 2d20) from (highest 1 of 2d20) isn't comparing advantage to a normal roll, it's comparing advantage to disadvantage.Maybe I'm doing it wrong; help me check my spreadsheet.
Column 1 picks a number between 1 and 20 (inclusive).
Column 2 picks another number between 1 and 20 (inclusive).
Column 3 chooses the minimum value between the two.
Column 4 chooses the maximum value between the two.
Column 5 determines the difference between min and max.
I copy that across 10,000 rows, and average the results in Column 5. It gives me 6.6.
The actual average of (highest 1 of 2d20) is 13.82, from anydice.com, and the average of (lowest 1 of 2d20) is 7.18. Subtracting those gives you 6.64, which matches your Excel sheets.