UngeheuerLich
Legend
Optimization is absolutely mandatory in order to ensure the best chance of survival. If you don't optimize, and someone else in the party dies as a result, then it's entirely your fault.
As a player, it is your obligation to everyone else at the table, to optimize to the best of your ability (within the bounds allowed to you). To not do so would be disrespectful of the time and effort they have invested into the common cause.Optimization isn't meta-gaming. Optimization is making intelligent and thoughtful decisions as your character, and them asking advice from their peers. Optimization is a form of role-playing, as long as you're role-playing a competent adventurer.
Making an inferior character, because you want a challenge, is meta-gaming. If you want a challenge, and you aren't a meta-gamer, then those decisions need to be taken out of your hands.
That sounds so wrong on so many levels. You really blame other people if you die because they might have taken the wrong feat... or do I understand it wrong what you are saying...
How can you even judge if a single choice might be the reason for your demise. Do you account for the fact that the fighter who raised cha to 20 and took the actor feat actually prevented a combat your most optimkzed party could have never won?
We used to not show our character sheets to each other in 2nd edition and we still hide it from each other in the beginning of our campaigns. I would never show mine to you even if I was optimized.