With the exception of my wife, I don't game with the others regularly.A shame you have not corrected their misconceptions based on plainly horrible DMs who didnt have a clue.
I also doubt my ability to run it well.
Maybe, but she at least had hope that SD would be different by listening to interviews with Kelsey Dionne and watching a very fun live play at Origins '24 that she ran.I will say however based on your various post campaign threads, any OSR game is a bad match for your wife.
She claims to want only something light-hearted, fun, and empowering. She's a "butt kicker" to use the old appeal term. That seems difficult to do in the OSR.