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You need to quarantine.and now he's infected one of the others....
You need to quarantine.and now he's infected one of the others....
That's not what's bugging the player. Yeah, it might be nice, and yeah, he might use the advantage if it's kept in-game, but he thinks the rule is bad for PCs and NPCs.
I agree with him. If everyone is aware, I just discount the rule.
He seems logical to me (but maybe that's because I agree with him), so I think you can talk this through. If he knows you're trying to preserve game balance for both PCs and NPCs, and you're trying to do this impartially (like he's trying to do with the rule), I think he'll be more willing to accept your view, and your decision.
As far as I can tell, being flat-footed is a world apart from being surprised.
Prior to you starting to move around a lot, i.e. prior to your first turn, you're NOT moving around in combat-fashion. You're an easier target. Your opponent doesn't have to worry about your already incoming attack just yet. "He who strikes first often strikes last" - that's what the flat-footed rule is about.
I practice a martial art for a few years now and I've noticed this several times in sparring rounds:
This really should be the issue at question. 3E determines surprise as a matter of who is aware of the presence of others. Flat-footed however, is a matter of having PREPARED for combat. Just because two people are arguing or highly suspicious of each others motivations doesn't mean EITHER of them is actually in a combat stance of some sort and ready for any potential attack.If everyone is aware, I just discount the rule. Who wouldn't attempt to dodge, parry, block, twist, etc. when everyone is aware that combat is about to happen?
Flat-footed however, is a matter of having PREPARED for combat. Just because two people are arguing or highly suspicious of each others motivations doesn't mean EITHER of them is actually in a combat stance of some sort and ready for any potential attack.
Now suppose one of them declares that he draws a weapon and DOESN'T attack? Well, if the opponent draws a weapon in turn THEN it can be argued that neither of them is flat-footed.
If the player STATES, "I prepare to defend myself against his sudden attack, but don't actually draw my weapon," then the DM could decide that he's not actually flat-footed for the next round, say.

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Rulebook featuring "high magic" options, including a host of new spells.