Nah, diddling points are when your entire team doesn't do anything. As long as someone on your team was putting the smack down, you shouldn't earn a diddling penalty.
LOL
I'm sure that's quite a comfort to the Ogre that used up 25% of a party's resources.
He's still dead, and chopped up into flaming bits, but he'll take that gold plaque with him with pride into the afterlife : "I used up a party's resources!"