Me thinks I'm lucky to live in Saskatoon. 300,000 people and a few hundred are gamers.. That's pretty good, if you ask me, and there's at least a hundred female gamers here, a dozen or so of which I know personally. So you know, it's not actually hard to find them.
I wouldn't use being a gamer as a requirement, but most groups of people want to be with people that are like them. Christians don't usually date goths, racers rarely marry business people, cops seldom fall in love with gang members, etc. I think that, since Gamers are (Mostly) human beings, we're just as susceptible to the human feeling for wanting to be with people who are like ourselves.
And getting back to what Chricton said in the beginning... That's very true.
Heck, I just started my job as a Security guard a month or two ago, and I've allready found out that 3 of the 5 co-workers I've worked with are Gamers!!! Unfortunately none of them are female yet, but I'm working on it.
