Grappling (3.0)

[Winternight]

May I attack a grappling foe without penalties?

As I understand stand the rules, if two people are grappling and a third party wants to hit one of them, he not only get no penalties but the defender also gets no Dex Bonus to AC.
I do not have any chance hitting the wrong guy.
Am I right about the rules?

 

[Malicene]

think you're good !
or opponent need to have feats like elusive grappler to avoid dex loss for AC.

 

[Tabarnak Smokeblower]

I do not have any chance hitting the wrong guy.

As written, I think it's true, although a bit dumbfounding to me since you have a chance of hitting the wrong person with your AoO when a bull rusher moves into the occupied square of the creature he's trying to push. But hey.

TS

 

[Tellerve]

Malicene-

Where is that elusive grappler feat located?

Thanks,

Tellerve

p.s. Does anyone know of a feat, probably called Improved Grappler? I'm thinking it would give a +4 (one size category increase essentially) in times of grappling.