Yes and No.As players, we don't really lose out. We now have more choices, and a higher chance to find a game that suites our preferences.
??? Why? Now we have 2 viable (and vibrant from all reports) versions of D&D - Pathfinder and 4E.
Same here, though my group would replace Exalted and Mage with Warhammer 2e and M&M2e, respectively.As far as my group's concerned, Pathfinder isn't even on the radar. We'd be much more likely to be playing Arcana Evolved, Exalted, SW Saga, Mage or even 3.5e if we didn't like 4e.
So we need to get past the "My game is better then your game" mentality and just accept we all like and prefer different things.
I like C&C. I think 3E is waaaaayy too complicated and unfun to run, especially at higher levels. I have found 4E to be very "ho hum" and actually think GURPS 4E is a better system. So what? That is my opinion. IT doesn't change the fact others love 3E and 4E, and love GURPS, ROlemaster, etc...
We all game to have fun. The system only matters if you don't like it. Even though I find 4E to be "Ho hum" I am still having fun playing it with the people I am playing it with. In our last session the DM offered to end the 4E try out. We all agreed to keep going because even though none of us are falling in love with it we are having fun and may as well finish the module.
??? Why? Now we have 2 viable (and vibrant from all reports) versions of D&D - Pathfinder and 4E. How does this community lose out? You have really lost me here.
This is very true. There are quite a number of the "old timers" (by that I mean the ENWorlders who were here since before 3E even launched) that are unsatisfied by 4E. I miss their posts, because a lot of them were about my age and had many of the same experiences I had growing up playing D&D and managing to find a place in the world. I miss a lot of that.There are some posters here that I used to have good conversations with who have gone 4E - and they aren't interested in talking about the 3.5 anymore Pathfinder.
I miss the time when almost all of us were talking about the same game.
To use a trite analogy, it's like half of my friends are playing in a different sandbox now.
To use a trite analogy, it's like half of my friends are playing in a different sandbox now.