Has anyone ever tried to 'save' you from D&D?

Have you ever had someone make a serious effort to 'save' you from D&D?

  • Yes. They thought it was too sedentary and tried to get me involved in sports.

    Votes: 28 9.2%
  • Yes. They thought I had too few friends and tried to get me into social mixing.

    Votes: 24 7.9%
  • Yes. They thought my D&D friends were geeky and wanted me to meet a jockier/more popular class of id

    Votes: 15 4.9%
  • Yes. They thought D&D was a religious or moral hazard or suicide risk.

    Votes: 104 34.2%
  • No. That never happened to me.

    Votes: 175 57.6%

  • Poll closed .
Although no one ever tried to "save" me from D&D, I did have a girlfriend who was (for some reason) very, very shocked that I had joined a D&D gaming group of folks I met thru the internet. At one time she went to a pretty wacky church, so maybe that's where she "heard Dungeons and Dragons was evil". She insisted that I take a pistol to my first meeting with these folks because they might be nuts. No lie. A pistol. To placate her I threw my Baretta M92 in my satchel along with my PHB, notepad and dice container before I traveled to meet the new group. When I finally met the gaming guys, they were the most milquetoast, harmless, gentle group of people. Maybe not the most well-balanced of set of individuals (but then again who is) I ever met, but they were certainly not bloodthirsty lunatics.

What was really, really strange, was that my girlfriend was not some anti-gamer, or someone who was anti-fantasy. Hell, she was practically addicted to EverQuest at the time. How could you like EverQuest -- which rips off so much from D&D (which in turn ripped off so much from Tolkein, Howard, Vance, Lieber, etc.) -- and not like D&D itself? How was sitting around a table with acutal live people for an afternoon of gaming evil, when sitting alone in your bedroom for 16 hours playing EQ somehow ok?

What may make the bit about the pistol a little bit easier to understand is that we were in Texas. Walking around with a handgun is seen as the answer for alot of life's little problems in Texas.
 

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JesterPoet said:
I see what you're doing here. You're using your weak chicanery to try to convince everyone here that I didn't really meet LeeAnn Rimes at Perkins! I see through your ploy. It's because you're jealous!

Jealous I tell you!

:lol:

Actually, I hadn't even considered your LeeAnn meeting when I responded about the Jesus meeting, but that brings up an interesting thought...

I wonder how often people think they have met celebrities when in fact they've just met either look-alikes or people who simply claim to be that person?

My dad used to work with a fellow who was the very spitting image of Alfred Hitchcock. This is back when Hitchcock was still alive. They travelled together on a training seminar down to Florida one time. During the trip several people came up to him and asked for his autograph or to take a picture with him. He actually would then pretend to be Alfred and sign their notepads or pose for pictures. When asked, he said my dad was "His Bodyguard". ;) My father is a big guy, so it actually made sense. I'm sure he's in the background of some of those photos that people took as well.

So did you actually meet LeeAnn Rimes, or just a look-alike? :lol:
 

Bert Kampfert got the mad hits..

Kalendraf said:
So did you actually meet LeeAnn Rimes, or just a look-alike?

That's easily determined by the following question.

Was she, or was she not, all about value?
 
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I've never had anyone try to save me from D&D or RPG, but as I played RQ2 and Call of Cthulhu during the 2e era I suppose Greg Stafford saved me from that. As I was already doing track and field before starting gaming and have kept it up I'd never get told I needed to do more exercise.
 

My friend had parents who were very religious. They firmly believed D&D was Satanic so we had to play in secret. Oddly enough he could play Hero Quest.

We got away with it for 3 years until the summer after being freshmen in highschool. His mother often would "randomly" clean Nathan's room. That is, she'd snoop. He actually had his books pretty well hidden but she found them and freaked out. His parents took his books and minis and everything remotely D&D related (not Hero Quest) and took them out to a dirt road in the country. They threw all his stuff into the ditch and burned it while they prayed for his soul.

Afterwords, he wasn't aloud over to my place at all. For any reason. If they even suspected he was over, they'd round up the family and surround my apt so he could get away. Once they came over and he wasn't even there.

Finally, I lied to them saying that I got rid of all my D&D stuff. Thus, I was able to see my best friend. And we continued playing in secret. I remember feeling guilty that I had told such a lie. But I honestly felt "persecuted" just because I played a game. It just had to end.
 

I actually was saved from gaming. Now I bring my Bible to the game table three nights a week and study when its not my init. I only play LG clerics and paladins to keep my soul safe.

Ozmar the Converted :)
 

Several times, in fact.

The first time was when I was in grade 8, when I was re-united with an old friend from one of my elementary schools. His parents had heard about "some kid when went crazy and killed someone from playing D&D." I was a quiet, reasonably well-behaved kid who did well in school, and never got into fights, didn't drink, etc. But because I played D&D, he wasn't allowed to come over to my place, because his parents were convinced I was going to kill him. He wasn't even allowed to talk to me on the phone for more than 15 minutes, because they were afraid we'd play D&D over the phone. I'd even brought my D&D books over the one time I slept over at his place so they could see them and watch us play, but they were unconvinced. They seemed to have no problem with him hanging out with high-school dropouts who always got into fights and got drunk every weekend. Whatever.

The second time was also in grade 8. We'd started up a D&D club at school, and we only got to our second meeting when the principal came and told us that we weren't allowed to play at school. The mother of one of the grade 10 kids (this was actually that guy that introduced me to the game at Scout camp) had demanded that we not be allowed to play, basically because she felt her son was spending too much time with the game instead of school. So that ruined it for all of us. We tried reasoning with him, and my mother fought for our right to play, even asking if we could start a club if students brought signed notes from their parents. Still no go. So instead, we just left school at lunch to go and play at Yuri's house (he lived a few minutes away from the school). Good plan, guys. Encourage us to just leave the school grounds.

Later in grade 8, we got in trouble for bringing D&D books with us to play on the bus on our band trip (we were going from the BC interior into Alberta, so it was a long trip). We were told it wasn't allowed. Again.

I don't remember if it was the same year or not, but my band teacher saw us in the halls with D&D books, and told us that he had order to confiscate all D&D books, so he'd better not see us with them again. I would have liked to have seen him try that.

My grade 9 social studies teacher (who was a complete moron), at a parent-teacher night, told my mother that she should be concerned about me because I played D&D.

In grade 10, we'd just decided to not tell anybody that we were playing, and we technically weren't playing D&D anyway. It was a game of "Trandimensional TMNT" in the world of Conan. My friend Steve was "Arno the Agitated," a mutant ardvark with an Int score of 7. I was Xof, a mutant fox wizard. Anyway, the teacher whose room we played in didn't mind what we were doing, so we played in there every lunch hour. Then one day, there was a substitute teacher in there. The characters in the game were in a tavern, and Arno used his "Aquilonean Curses" skill -- which was his familiarity with local swear words -- to talk to the guys in the bar. The next day, that substitute was there again, and she was armed to the teeth with religious anti-D&D propaganda. She lectured us on the evils of D&D for the whole lunch hour, totally ignoring any arguments that we made. She talked about rescuing her sister who "dabbled" in D&D. She got off on some tangent about how she wouldn't let her children watch "Masters of the Universe" because it implied that God is not the master of the universe. She also wouldn't let her children watch The Smurfs, because the Smurfs used magic, and all magic is Satanic, whether it is white magic or black magic. Obviously, there was no reasoning with a person like this -- the Satanic Smurf Lady, as she became known to us. The next day, the original teacher was back, but the substitute had complained to the school administration, so we were once again told we couldn't play on the school grounds. So once again, we played at Yuri's house instead (he was the GM of that game anyway).

Grade 11 was at a different school (the senior high), but it was the same group of us. My house was 5 min from the school, and I had a huge 4' x 8' gaming table in the basement, so we just played there at lunch. One day, the vice-principal saw us with our multi-sided dice in the hallway, and (with a smirk, obvioulsy not really caring) told us "you're not supposed to be playing those games at school." As he walked away, I remember one of us saying "hey, let's go to Chris' and sacrifice small mammals." (I'm Chris, btw)

I think that was it, from my teenage years. That's quite enough already... Well, we got teased a lot from the jocks and the in-crowd, but that didn't stop us from playing.

Never really had any troubles after that. I'd gamed with a few people who didn't tell their parents they were playing, because they knew their parents would have religious objections to it.

Well, my ex-girlfriend (ex-fiancee actually), during the 5 years we were together, never understood why I liked to play D&D, and was always harassing me not to hang out with my D&D friends, because they were too geeky. And she thought it was a waste of time (same goes for my video games). I didn't play that often, and when I did, she would keep calling me every half hour after I'd been there for a couple hours, demanding when I was going to come home. When I say I didn't play that often, I mean it. I probably played D&D (or any other RPG) no more than 10 or 12 times during those five years, so it's not like I was neglecting her for the game or anything. And she'd always try to stop me from going, usually as I was about to head out the door to a game, without any consideration for the others who were going to be at the game. I'd had to cancel a few games I was DMing, on only a couple hours' notice, because of getting in a big fight with her about it.

So that's my story of people trying to stop me from playing D&D.
 

I was saved from D&D...by BAG and the holy light of their Grim Tales...yes, it is true! Only a few months ago, I played a system where the power of magic items at a given level were assumed, and it was folly to design a city without taking into account how every mage who lived past 30 could fly!

Now, every session, I use my new gaming bible, Grim Tales! It is truly the good book.

But seriously, I only know of one person on my entire island that has crazy, anti-D&D, religious parents, and he's not a friend of mine. The rest of us have hippies, former hippies, former artsy-fartsy types, or any combination of the above as parents. You know, the kind of people who scoff at televangelism.
 

All you people that had your parents try to "save" you have made me realize how lucky I am. When I was 6, my dad taught me how to play, using the 1st ed. stuff from his college days. I played around a lot with making characters and reading the rules, but didn't actually start playing regularly until ten years later, when my dad started driving a group of friends and me to game conventions. Since then, we've even convinced my mom and sister to give it a try, and they enjoy playing, although they don't get into it to the same extent we do. Our big family vacation a couple of years ago was a 3-week roadtrip from CA to Gencon. My parents are both devout Lutherans, but they were smart enough to think for themselves rather than accepting what they were told.

I have had two experiences that are kind of close. The first was back when I played Magic, and one of the sunday school teachers tried to convince me to quit. The second was that my girlfriend's parents heard that I had taught her to play D&D and told her to quit. Fortunately, she didn't listen to them.
 

Keldryn said:
The next day, that substitute was there again, and she was armed to the teeth with religious anti-D&D propaganda. She lectured us on the evils of D&D for the whole lunch hour, totally ignoring any arguments that we made. She talked about rescuing her sister who "dabbled" in D&D. She got off on some tangent about how she wouldn't let her children watch "Masters of the Universe" because it implied that God is not the master of the universe. She also wouldn't let her children watch The Smurfs, because the Smurfs used magic, and all magic is Satanic, whether it is white magic or black magic. Obviously, there was no reasoning with a person like this -- the Satanic Smurf Lady, as she became known to us.

Hey, I think my mom was your substitute teacher! Those are the same lines she used on me when I asked why I couldn't watch TV. I never thought to call her the "Satanic Smurf Lady". :)

Ozmar the Satanic Smurf Child
 

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