mmadsen said:
The problem with Bestow Curse -- well, one of them -- is that it cripples a character without killing him, and you, as DM, might use it quite casually (since it's nonlethal), not realizing it's worse than death for the player (who can always make a new character if his old one dies).
More and more, I'm coming to the conclusion you've never actually played D&D and in particular 3E, as opposed to harping on about it on web boards.
Not that there's anything wrong with that, of course.